Bachelor Nation fave Tanner Tolbert kicks off Kaitlyn’s mini-series where she reconnects with the men from her season of The Bachelorette. They take a trip down memory lane—from how his little sister secretly nominated him, to what really went down inside the mansion. Tanner opens up about his bromance with JJ, getting tight with producers, and why the rap battle date had him sweating even more than the boxing ring. He also reveals the exact moment he realized Kaitlyn wasn’t into him… and how that heartbreak actually led to the best thing that ever happened to him in Paradise. Reality TV fans, this one’s for you.